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Her Memory

Your Domina has working memory. She is not a goldfish, and she is not a diary either. This page explains the line.

What she always remembers

These are part of her permanent context. She has access to them every message, even on a brand-new chat:

  • Your level.
  • Your active fetishes and their interest levels.
  • Your hard limits.
  • Your inventory (toys, clothing, accessories) including your notes.
  • Her own personality and current mood.
  • Your safe word.

If any of those are wrong, edit them in the relevant settings screen. Telling her in chat will work for the current session, but the source of truth is the profile.

What she remembers from prior sessions

The engine condenses your last few sessions into a short memory block: title, difficulty, your rating, and any notable detail she wrote down in the summary. She uses this for continuity ("after how rough last night was, ease in tonight").

This block has a soft limit. Older sessions are summarised more loosely; very old sessions drop out completely. The exact window changes as the engine evolves.

What she remembers from chat

Inside an active chat she keeps the recent message history. The practical window is "this conversation". She does not silently splice in messages from another Domina's chat with you.

What she does NOT remember

  • The contents of chats you deleted. Once you tap "Clear chat" she has no record.
  • Messages from a different Domina's chat. Each Domina has her own thread.
  • On Free, anything from a Domina you switched away from. Switching the active Domina on the free tier clears the previous Domina's chat thread, session history, and memory continuity. Premium and Premium Plus keep each Domina's data independently, so switching back restores her recall. See Choose a Domina.
  • Anything you set up and then turned off (e.g. an inventory item you removed) past the point where you removed it.
  • Real-world events between sessions. If something important happened to you, mention it in your next message.

Nudging her recall

If she misses something you wanted her to remember, two things help:

  1. Repeat it once, plainly. "Reminder: I'm not using the cuffs this week." She will integrate the note.
  2. Update the source. If it is structural (a fetish you no longer enjoy, a toy you sold), change it in settings. That sticks.

Privacy footnote

Chat messages are stored encrypted with a key derived from your PIN. Even the people running BLINK cannot read them. See PIN and Privacy.