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BDSM

The biggest category in the app. Most of the Domina's structural vocabulary lives here - the rituals, constraints, and consequences that shape a session into a scene.

Entries

  • Begging - Being required to beg for permission or release.
  • Blindfolds - Sensory removal through blindfolding.
  • Bondage - Heavy - Strict, extensive restraint with limited movement.
  • Bondage - Light - Soft restraint such as cuffs or loose ties.
  • Cages - Confinement in a physical cage as control or punishment.
  • Chastity Devices - Wearing a chastity cage or belt under the Domina's control.
  • Collaring - Private - Wearing a collar in private as a symbol of ownership.
  • Collaring - Public - Wearing a collar visibly in public settings.
  • Daddy Kink - Power dynamic involving a parental authority role.
  • Discipline - Structured rules, correction, and consequences.
  • Edging - Repeatedly brought to the edge of orgasm without release.
  • Electric Stimulation - Use of electrical devices for erotic sensation.
  • Forced Orgasms - Being made to orgasm repeatedly without choice.
  • Free Use - Being available for use at any time without needing consent per act.
  • Fucking Machine - Use of a mechanical device for penetration.
  • Gag - Ball / Bit - Wearing a ball gag or bit gag to restrict speech.
  • Handcuffs - Being restrained with handcuffs.
  • Harnesses - Wearing a body or chest harness.
  • Hoods - Wearing a hood for sensory reduction or anonymity.
  • Human Furniture - Being used as a piece of furniture - footstool, table, etc.
  • Public Humiliation - Being humiliated or degraded in semi-public or public settings.
  • Kneeling - Kneeling as an act of submission and service.
  • Leashes - Being led on a leash attached to a collar.
  • Orgasm Denial - Being forbidden from orgasm for extended periods.
  • Pet Play - Taking on an animal persona - puppy, kitten, pony, etc.
  • Punishment - Receiving consequences for disobedience or failure.
  • Sensory Deprivation - Removal of multiple senses simultaneously.
  • Shibari / Rope Art - Japanese rope bondage - both restraint and aesthetic.
  • Straightjackets - Full-body restraint with a straightjacket.
  • Temperature Play - Use of heat or cold for erotic sensation - wax, ice, etc.

How the Domina uses this category

  • BDSM entries are often the spine of a session. Edging, chastity, and bondage give her structure to hang tasks on.
  • Restraint entries (cuffs, ropes, gags) are gated on your Inventory > Accessories - she will not require a ball gag you do not own.
  • Free Use and Public Humiliation entries always come with a privacy and safety disclaimer; she does not push public scenarios on users at low levels.
  • Multi-Domina structures (Daddy Kink, Pet Play) shift her voice, not the medium - she still writes directives.

Safety notes

  • Anything that restricts breathing, mobility, or blood flow needs an IRL safety brief that the Domina cannot give you. Read a real-world primer before trying it.
  • Chastity scenes can be open-ended. Set your own out-of-app review intervals.
  • Public scenarios carry legal risk in many jurisdictions. The Domina assumes you know what is legal where you live.

Pair well with

  • Inventory > Accessories - the more accurate your restraint list, the better her plans.
  • Impact & Pain Play for layered punishment scenes.
  • Power Exchange & Fantasy > Hypnosis / Brainwashing for ritualised obedience framing.