Findom¶

Findom (financial domination) is an opt-in feature. Off by default on every account. When you turn it on, your Domina can stage Charm charges: in-character demands that pause the chat until you respond. Charms are an in-app currency you can also buy through Stripe - so a Charm charge can convert to real spending if you choose, or can be paid from a wallet you already have.

Turning it on and off¶

Go to Account > Findom.
Toggle "Findom enabled".
You can flip it off at any time. Existing open charges remain resolvable until they expire.

What a charge looks like¶

When findom is on, the Domina may, during certain scenes, declare a charge. The chat then hard-gates: you cannot continue the conversation until you resolve the charge.

You have three options:

Option	Result
Pay	Charms are deducted from your wallet, the gate clears, the Domina is pleased.
Refuse	The Domina punishes (in-character). The gate clears. No Charms deducted.
Wait for expiry	After the configured TTL (default 30 minutes), the charge auto-expires. No Charms deducted. No punishment scene.

The gate is only active when there is an open charge. Outside that window, chat is normal.

Where your Charms come from¶

You either:

Buy a Charm bundle through Stripe (one-time purchase).
Earn Charms through promotions or grants (if any are active).

Buying Charms does not change your tier. Cancelling Premium does not consume Charms. Charms do not expire.

Real money vs in-app¶

A Charm charge does not, by itself, charge a card. The card is only charged when you proactively buy a Charm bundle.

That said, if you keep paying findom charges and your wallet runs low, you may end up buying more Charms - which is real money. Watch your balance if you are using findom heavily. The wallet view is in Account.

Safety rails¶

Each individual charge is capped two ways: a server-side hard ceiling that applies to every account, and a per-user soft cap you can lower from the Findom settings screen. The Domina cannot stage a charge above the lower of the two.
Open charges auto-expire after the configured TTL (30 minutes by default) so a session cannot block your account indefinitely.
The Domina cannot stage charges that exceed your wallet balance plus your per-user cap.
Disabling findom from settings is locked while a charge is open; the open charge has to resolve (pay, refuse, or expire) before you can flip the toggle off. This is by design - it stops the toggle-off from being a free escape mid-scene.
The universal hard limits still apply: no blackmail framing that uses real personal data, no targeting of real third parties, no coercion that would survive switching the toggle off.

A note on responsible findom¶

If real-world financial harm is a risk for you, leave findom off. It is not a feature to test your willpower against; it is a feature for people for whom in-character spending is part of the fantasy and who can afford the bundle they bought. The toggle is your safe-word for this feature.