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Safe Word

The safe word is your hard-stop. It is always one tap away during a session, no matter what the screen looks like. Tapping it ends the session immediately, no questions, no penalty.

Where to find it

During any active session, a crimson Safe Word button is fixed at the bottom of the screen. The button shows your current safe word so you don't have to remember it. It is not allowed to be hidden by any modal, animation, drawer, or task screen.

If you ever can't see it, that is a bug. Close and re-open the app; nothing about your session is lost in transit.

What happens when you tap

  • The session is marked ended immediately.
  • The Domina sends a short neutral acknowledgement.
  • No XP is awarded.
  • No rating screen is shown.
  • If you session with a personal Domina, her current mood resets to Neutral (it does not drift to disappointed). Preset Dominas always run in neutral mood regardless.
  • The session does count against your daily quota. On Free, this means a safeworded session uses up your one session for the day. Safeword early if you need to, but know the cost.

Choosing your safe word

You set it during onboarding and can change it on the Profile screen.

  • Pick something that is not part of how you talk in scene. "Stop" and "no" can both appear inside a scene; "red" and "pineapple" cannot realistically slip in by accident.
  • Short is fine. One syllable is fine.
  • Capital letters do not matter; matching is case-insensitive.

The current safe word is always shown on the button, so even if you forget, the screen tells you.

What the safe word is for

The safe word is for ending the scene. Not for fine-tuning.

For fine-tuning (slow down, skip a task, change tone), write a short message between task cards. See Writing Good Messages.

For full stop, use the safe word.

After you safeword

You stay in the chat with your Domina. She does not pry. If you want to talk about what didn't work, she listens; if you want to log off, she respects that. There is no required follow-up.

You can start another session whenever you are ready. The Domina's planner does not penalise post-safeword sessions; she leans toward a gentler proposal next, unless you explicitly say otherwise.