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Impact & Pain Play

A small, focused category. Each entry has real-world technique considerations. The Domina treats these as escalations, not warm-ups.

Entries

  • Cock & Ball Torture (CBT) - Pain or pressure applied to the genitals.
  • Nipple Clamps - Applying clamps to nipples for pain and sensation.
  • Spanking - Being struck on the buttocks by hand or implement.
  • Whipping - Being struck with a whip, flogger, or cane.

How the Domina uses this category

  • Impact entries are usually midway through a session, after warm-up and before closing. They are rarely the very first task.
  • Intensity scales with your level and her intensity setting. A level 3 user with a level 5 Domina will see slower escalation than a level 9 user with the same Domina.
  • The Domina will ask you to confirm setup ("are you on the bench, are you alone, do you have the implement she named"). Do not skip this read.

Safety notes

The Domina cannot watch you. She has no idea if you have hit a bruise, a bone, or a nerve. Specifically:

  • Whipping and caning need IRL technique training. Stay off the lower back, the kidneys, and the spine.
  • Nipple clamps have a time limit. Read the manufacturer's note.
  • CBT is the easiest in this category to injure yourself with. If you are new, mark it Curious and let her build up.

Pair well with

  • BDSM > Punishment / Discipline for structural framing.
  • BDSM > Bondage Light to add controlled restraint.
  • Misc Kinks > Overstimulation for escalation after the impact phase.