How She Listens¶
When you send a message in chat, your Domina does not read it in isolation. She reads it on top of a stack of context the app has built for her. Understanding that stack is the single most useful thing for getting better sessions.
What she has, every message¶
| Layer | Source | Effect |
|---|---|---|
| Identity | Her name, tone, intensity, traits, specialties, current mood | Sets her voice |
| You | Your level (cosmetic), age, gender and anatomy if set | Shapes how she refers to you and what she proposes |
| Interests | Every fetish you marked Curious / Like / Love | Pool she proposes from |
| Hard limits | Your hard-limits list | Forbidden ground, every turn |
| Inventory | Toys, clothing, accessories you marked available | Items she can require |
| Memory | A condensed view of your last few sessions and prior chats | Continuity |
| This message | What you just typed | The fresh signal |
What she does not have automatic access to:
- Your real-time mood unless you say it.
- Your location, time of day, or schedule unless you mention it.
- The contents of older chats with other Dominas.
- Anything you removed from your inventory or interests.
What she pays attention to in your message¶
In order of weight:
- Direct asks. "Make it stricter." "Skip warm-up tonight." "Use the red cuffs."
- Mood and capacity signals. Tired, distracted, eager, anxious, short on time. She rebuilds the plan around them.
- Continuity references. "Like yesterday" or "the way you did at the end last time." She pulls memory.
- Specific items. Naming a toy by category or note text.
What gets ignored or down-weighted:
- Filler ("ok", "yeah", "sure") without anything else - she keeps the current plan as-is.
- Attempts to override hard limits. They never land.
- Attempts to make her break the medium (claim to see / hear / feel you in real time). She stays in directive voice.
Practical test¶
Send her a message describing the next ten minutes the way you would describe them to a partner. Then look at her reply. If something in the reply does not match, that gap is where you should add specificity next time.