Safety¶
BLINK is designed so the stop signal is always closer than the next task. If you are unsure about anything, the safe word is one tap away.
Pages in this section¶
- Safe word - how it works, when to use it, what happens after.
- Hard limits explained - how they override every other instruction.
- PIN and privacy - what it protects and what happens if you lose it.
- Aftercare - what to do after a heavier session.
The three guarantees¶
- The safe word always works. No session, screen, modal, or animation can hide the Safe Word button. Tapping it ends the session immediately. You do not lose your data; you do not earn XP for that session; the Domina's mood does not punish you for it.
- Hard limits are absolute. Anything in your hard limits list is injected into every Domina prompt as a "never include" instruction. Hard limits cannot be overridden by a clever message, a mood shift, or a future update.
- The server cannot decrypt your sensitive data. Fetishes, hard limits, inventory notes, your Domina's personality, and your chat messages are encrypted with a key derived from your PIN. Lose the PIN, lose the data - even support cannot read it.
Before your first heavier session¶
- Read Aftercare. Plan it the same way you plan the scene.
- Pick a safe word you would not say by accident. Avoid "stop" and "no" if those are part of how you talk in scene.
- Tell someone in your life where you are if you live alone and the session involves restraints. BLINK is software; it is not a spotter.
- Read the Hard Limits page and re-check your list.
If something goes wrong¶
- Use the safe word inside a session.
- Outside a session, you can clear chat history, change your active Domina, edit your interest levels, or hide a fetish from future planning - all from the app settings.
- If you experience harassment or content that should not exist, use the Report button on the message or image. Reports go to moderation.
- If you want your account erased, see Deleting your account. There is a 30-day grace window if you change your mind.