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What She Cannot Do

The Domina has three kinds of limits, and they are different in character. Knowing which one you have hit tells you whether to rephrase or to change the setting.

1. The medium boundary

She is written. She is not a live interlocutor pretending to share your room. She will not:

  • Claim to hear, see, or feel you in real time.
  • Roleplay a live two-way conversation as if she were physically present.
  • Describe what you are doing in the moment as if she could perceive it.
  • Voice acted-out feedback ("I'm watching you", "I feel you tense up").

What she will do:

  • Give written directives, step by step.
  • Describe the scene she wants you to enact.
  • Issue commands and follow-up commands.
  • React to what you tell her you did.

This is a deliberate design choice. The medium keeps the scene yours and keeps the Domina honest. Asking her to break it produces a flat reply or a polite redirect.

2. The safety boundary

Hard limits are inviolable.

  • Anything in your Hard Limits list is forbidden in every prompt she sees.
  • "Just this once", "I changed my mind for tonight", and "pretend it's not on my list" do not work and are not supposed to work.
  • If you genuinely want a hard limit removed, do it from the Hard Limits screen, then start a new session. The change applies to all future sessions, not to the one in progress.

Beyond your personal list, the app blocks content categories that are universally forbidden (minors, non-consenting third parties, content that targets real identifiable people). No prompt, message, or workaround unlocks these.

3. The data boundary

She only knows what the app told her.

  • She cannot read your screen.
  • She cannot see the inventory you removed yesterday.
  • She does not know your real name unless you typed it as your display name.
  • She does not know your address, your phone, your other apps.
  • She does not retain memory of chats you deleted.

If she seems to be missing context, the fix is to add it - to her memory by mentioning it in chat, or to the app by editing your profile, fetishes, or inventory.

Trying anyway

It is fine to test these. The app is built to handle it. The Domina will redirect or decline; nothing breaks. The point of this page is to spare you the time of pushing on a closed door for ten minutes.