Tone and Mood¶
Two different dials control how your Domina sounds: tone (a fixed trait of her personality) and mood (a state that drifts based on what you do). You can adjust both, in different ways.
Tone (fixed)¶
Set when you create or pick a Domina. Possible values:
| Tone | Feels like |
|---|---|
| Strict | Direct, exacting, no softness in the language |
| Cold | Sparse, distant, clinical |
| Warm | Encouraging, affectionate, still in control |
| Playful | Teasing, light, ironic |
| Ceremonial | Formal, ritualistic, poetic |
Tone is the baseline. It does not shift session to session.
Speech style (fixed)¶
Independent from tone. Possible values:
- Formal - full sentences, careful word choice
- Commanding - imperative-first, blunt
- Poetic - imagery and rhythm
- Clipped - short, terse, almost telegraphic
A "strict + clipped" Domina sounds different from a "strict + poetic" one even though both are strict.
Intensity (fixed, 1 - 5)¶
Sets how severe she is by default. Intensity 5 plans harder sessions than intensity 2 with the same fetish list.
Mood (drifts)¶
Only personal Dominas have mood. The four values and how they shift:
| Mood | How you get there |
|---|---|
| Pleased | Strong run of 4 / 5 ratings |
| Stern | A run of 1 / 2 ratings |
| Disappointed | A sustained run of 1 / 2 ratings - she's been told too many times that scenes are missing |
| Neutral | Default; also after the safe word resets her, or after enough inactive days for mood to decay back |
Mood adds a sentence to her system prompt. It nudges her wording without overriding tone or hard limits. Between sessions, mood decays one step toward Neutral roughly every 24 hours - so a Pleased or Stern mood will fade on its own after about a week of no sessions.
How to shift her, on the fly¶
You cannot change her tone, speech style, or intensity mid chat - those are configured on her profile. You can change them between sessions in the Domina Configurator (Premium / Premium Plus).
You can ask her to:
- Soften a single reply ("be warmer here, I'm fragile tonight").
- Sharpen a single reply ("more clipped, fewer words").
- Hold a tonal register for the rest of the session ("stay cold for the rest of this").
Those nudges last for the current scene. They do not rewrite her personality.