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Difficulty Levels

Every session carries a difficulty rating. You see the number in the proposal sheet before you confirm.

The range

The planner produces sessions with difficulty between 2 and 4, with 3 as the typical target. You will not see difficulty 1 or 5 in practice - the planner deliberately stays in the middle of the scale so sessions feel neither pointless nor punishing by default.

Difficulty Feel Typical content
2 - Mild A real scene, but easy to step out of. Three or four tasks; soft restraint OK; minor escalation.
3 - Medium The default "good night" session. Four to six tasks; one or two escalation points; restraint and basic implements; clear closing.
4 - Hard A demanding session with stamina expectations. Multiple escalation phases; heavier implements; longer holds; more strict voice.

Difficulty is not the same as fetish category. A difficulty 2 session can still feature a heavy fetish if you marked it Love - the fetish will just appear as one short task, framed gently.

What the planner uses

  • Your active interests at Curious / Like / Love levels. These shape what content appears.
  • Your hard limits. These are excluded entirely.
  • Your inventory. The planner only proposes items you marked available.
  • The Domina's personality (tone, speech style, traits, specialties) and her current mood.

Your level (Novice I -> Master) is a cosmetic XP badge. It does not change how the planner builds sessions. If you're a level 1 with a strict, intensity-5 Domina, she's still strict; if you're a level 10 with a playful Domina, sessions still feel playful.

Asking for a specific session

Telling her what you want before she proposes shapes the next plan:

  • "Keep it short tonight, maybe 15 minutes."
  • "Focus on chastity, skip impact."
  • "I want something stricter this evening."

She reads the message and rebuilds the proposal around it. There is no hard "difficulty cap" mechanism - the planner doesn't lock to a number you name - but specific content steers reliably change what she proposes.

Why a session might surprise you

  • You changed your interest levels recently. The planner adjusted.
  • The Domina's mood is stern. Her tone hits harder than the difficulty number suggests.
  • You skipped warm-up by asking for "no preamble". A 3 with no warm-up feels like a 4.

If a session lands at the wrong difficulty, rate it accordingly. Your ratings drive your Domina's mood, which colours her future writing.